The Art of Decision Making

Do you find it difficult to make decisions in your life. We are faced with decisions everyday. Some decisions are easier to make others are quiet difficult and all decision gives you an outcome. I find that sometimes  people just shut themselves off because they don't want to make that decision. Do you sometimes find yourself shutting off because you have a difficult decision to make. Do you feel sometimes you make decisions out of fear, insecurity,doubt or worry. If we want to be precise than we can became very technical and use probability to make our choices. And some people do that they calculate every risk and options they think will happen and cross out the likely scenarios and then are able to make a choice.

Sometimes we make decisions out of stressful situations. However to be better prepared for the outcome a good decision will require a careful though process. This is my experience which may or maynot work for you but at least it can give you some perspective on how you can make your choices. When you are faced with making a big decision in life first thing is to don't rush it. Give your self a couple of days to think through, during those times you will get the response that will guide you in your choices. For me I find the answer usually comes from a conversation with friends, or a movie or something I read, maybe nature everything around you will speak to you or guide you to make the best choice. Weight out both negative and positive scenarios. Always consider those who are close to you and how your decision might affect them this also helps in making a better choice. If you really need to speak with someone then speak with those who have faced similar dilemma and find out how to deal with the situation. Pray and ask God for guidance let him lead and guide you and go with your heart. As a Christian God speaks to the heart and I believe when I have total peace in my heart then I know am making the right choice. Sometimes when we think all is working out for me something will come up that will change the whole scenario, don't panic and loose hope hold on to your choice eventually it will come back to you. Keep your cool at all times and make decisions when you are at peace and not out of frustration and panic. And remember the decisions you make today will be what becomes of your life tomorrow.